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Do Men Remember Anniversaries?

A woman awakes during the night to find that her husband was not in their bed.  She puts on her dressing gown and goes downstairs to look for him. She finds him sitting at the kitchen table with a hot cup of coffee in front of him. He appears to be in deep thought, just staring at the wall. She watches as he wipes a tear from his eye and takes a sip of his coffee. 'What's the matter, dear?' she whispers as she steps into the room, 'Why are you down here at this time of night?' The husband looks up from his coffee, 'I am just remembering when we first met 20 years ago and started dating. You were only 16. Do you remember back then?' he says solemnly. The wife is touched to tears thinking that her husband is so caring, so sensitive. 'Yes, I do' she replies. The husband pauses. The words were not coming easily. 'Do you remember when your father caught us in the back seat of my car?' 'Yes, I remember!' said th...

The importance of saying, in time, I LOVE YOU.

 A True Story but not of mine..... After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, "I love you, but I know this other woman loves you too, and she would love to spend some time with you." The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally. That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie. "What's wrong, are you well?" she asked. My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news. "I thought that it would be pleasant to spend some time with you," I responded. "Just the two of us." She thought about it for a moment, and then said... "I would like that very much." That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up, I was a bit n...

Tears

As we grew older, crying helps to relieve the inner grief that is unbearable. Sometimes we tried to hold back, but Mother Nature filled every human being with so many emotional cells that sometimes it seems that tears are free to flow from within. It’s a lie that men don’t cry, adults cried quietly, trying to hide the attention of those weary eyes. I cried many times in my life, sometimes over silly things, sometimes over a sad movie, sometimes over a failure, sometimes over a relationship. Its funny to say, but I sometimes enjoyed crying alone. Given a choice, I would prefer to remain youth forever and cry in the arms of my fnds when I’m sad. I know this won’t happen. I’m grown up now, I made my decision, I walk my own route. And if we made a wrong choice, we faced the consequences ourselves. Crying heals inner pain, for the lost of someone or something special is sometimes impossible to explain with understanding human terms. It is a better way of express of sadness & grief than ...
Everything Seems Silent.... Silence.........quintessential in itself!!!! Silence.....the various roles it plays in our lives. To many its scary ,to many its just a way to fill gaps but to many its peace..... Its very hard to live with silence... What does silence mean? When you share your thoughts and feelings with someone and they don’t respond what does that mean? Does that mean they just don’t care??? or what ??? I think "no person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow even silence is the true friend that never betrays but sometime silence is the deadliest sound "..... Everyone,including me, used to…wake up everyday,rejoicing and enjoying, pretending to be happier than anybody else...And my doing this on and on,we simply getting addicted to it but I think its a temporary solution, so I found the other way : ' "Every second you spend thinking about someone else’s dreams you take time away from your own.’

You would like with your partner to ............

1. Watch the sunset together. 2. Whisper to each other. 3. Cook for each other. 4. Walk in the rain. 5. Hold hands. 6. Buy gifts for each other. 7. Roses. 8. Find out their favorite cologne/perfume and wear it every time you're together. 9. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight. 10. Write poetry for each other Hugs are the universal medicine. 11. Say I love you, only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it. 12. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry etc. 13. Tell her that she's the only girl you ever want. 14. Don't lie. 15. Spend every second possible together. 16. Look into each other's eyes. 17. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly. 18. When in public, only flirt w/ each other. 19. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren't looking. 20. Buy her a ring. 21. Sing to each other. 22. Always hold her around her hips/sides. 23. Take her to dinner and do the di...

EASY Vs DIFFICULT

Easy is to get a place is someone’s address book. Difficult is to get a place in someone’s heart. Easy is to judge the mistakes of others Difficult is to recognize our own mistakes. Easy is to talk without thinking Difficult is to refrain the tongue. Easy is to hurt someone who loves us. Difficult is to heal the wound. Easy is to forgive others Difficult is to ask for forgiveness. Easy is to set rules Difficult is to follow them . Easy is to dream every night. Difficult is to fight for a dream. Easy is to show victory Difficult is to assume defeat with dignity. Easy is to admire a full moon Difficult to see the other side. Easy is to stumble with a stone Difficult is to get up. Easy is to enjoy life every day Difficult to give its real value. Easy is to promise something to someone Difficult is to fulfill that promise. Easy is to say we love. Difficult is to show it every day. Easy is to criticize others. Difficult is to improve yourself. Easy is to make mistakes. Diffic...

SOME REALITIES OF LIFE

Check out Some Realites of Life. “U love someone U marry someone else. The one u marry becomes ur wife or husband. And the one u loved becomes the password of ur mail id” ————— There’s only one perfect child in the world & every mother has it. There’s only one perfect wife in the world & every neighbour has it. ————— If someone says u r ugly, its ok, if someone says u r stupid, its ok, If someone says u r genius slap him as tight as you can n say there is a limit of kidding n u r now crossing the limit. ————— Three dreams of a man: To be as handsome as his mother thinks. To be as rich as his child believes. To have as many women as his wife suspects… ————— Husband & wife are like liver and kidney. Husband is liver & wife kidney. If liver fails, kidney fails. If kidney fails, liver manages with other kidney. ————— What’s the diff between Dava & Daru? Dava is like girlfriend, that comes with expiry date and Daru is like wife, Jitni purani hogi...